• SabinStargem@lemmy.today
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    Slowly but surely, my income is weakening. I used to be able to regularly put about $300 a month into savings a decade ago, if I stuck to ramen and minimized going out. Now I am treading water - not enough to save, just to sustain my lifestyle. I am expecting my ABLE savings to become completely worthless, if I don’t spend them or convert them into a currency that isn’t American.

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      most Americans aren’t poor. median net worth is 135K for a 35 year old. that means 50% of people at 35 have more than that, and 50% have less.

      the rich ones however, are incredibly rich, but they think they are also poor. The poor ones, are also extremely poor. nobody thinks they are rich and have enough.

      my sister has 50 million in wealth. She doesn’t think she is wealthy, she thinks she is struggling middle class. all her neighbors are multi-millionaires and think they are poor and struggling. they are just ‘normal hardworking folk’. they think they work harder than the people living 5 miles away where the median net worth is 50K are lazy degenerates.

      I have about 500K in wealth I’m 40. everyone I meet thinks I’m broke and poor as dirt. but i live in a rich place where nobody thinks you are ‘stable’ unless you have 5million in so in wealth.

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        Thats insane to me how anyone could make over 200k and not feel rich. I feel super rich and between me and SO make like 180k. I still feel like I have it way too good.

        No kids tho. That helps. But really we can buy mostly anything we want and go on vacations. I own a few cars, all over 15 years old, fix em myself. That saves car payments. House is 50 years old and has old appliances and stuff that we have to fix on it often.

        What we dont have that I know other people in my life do (probably the ones who think they’re “poor”),

        4 wheelers/side by side by sides

        A huge shop

        A huge camper

        Big bro trucks that were 80k new

        A vacation home

        2 week long trips to resorts

        Snowmobiles

        Boats

        That shit adds up. Ive never gave a fuck about keeping up with the Joneses. I havent bought clothes in over 10 years. Ive maybe bought new clothes less than 5 times ever in my life. Besides shoes.

        All this said, fuck rich people. Everyone deserves to live. There’s hundreds of thousands of empty heated buildings just sitting there empty that folks could at least live in to not freeze.

        The issue in america is people think "the left " wants to take all your money. Yeah we dont care about the piddly shit. We want to tax the fucking billionaires. Drump is the one raising taxes on the poor. But Americans are idiots.

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          Their wants exeed their income. It’s that simple.

          I’m content with a 20K Honda Civic, they want a 100K car.

          And frankly, a lot of ‘poor’ people in america… they are poor simple because they are spending way more than they can afford. Tons of 200K income people are driving 100K cars and think a 50K car is ‘below’ them.

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            Yikes. Yeah that’s definitely an issue.

            I don’t get it. The more money I get the more I enjoy donating it. Seriously, the rich are mentally ill.

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    German, here.
    I failed my first college degree, and finally got one (a BSc in ecology) on the second attempt after 10 years of fucking around and procrastinating, with a grade equivalent to a C.
    I’ve never had a full time job in my life, always worked between 24 and 32 hours a week, with 4-5 weeks of vacation per year and unlimited sick days.
    I didn’t inherit anything.
    And I am now 200x richer than 40% of Americans, with free healthcare and a decent pension set up on top.

    I realize I’m very privileged, but your country is just fucked.

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    This is deliberate

    Keep people on the edge of ruin, and threaten their healthcare if they dare leave an exploitative employer

    Slavery never went away in the US, it merely expanded to include more people and was rebranded as “the free market”, or “rugged individualism” or some bullshit

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      And this is also why nobody is willing to actually rock the boat in the US. Everyone is too scared to lose what they have, our employers have us by the balls for our paychecks and healthcare, the banks have you by the balls because of debt and if you own a home and lose your job you could lose the home too.

      The US has been turned into a giant company town. As soon as you get paid the money gets taken away.

      Everything has been designed to extract the maximum money from people. From all the middlemen stealing convenience fees to subscription services to your increased medical premiums.

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        But this argument always sounds so weird to me.

        All throughout human history, in every part of the world, there have been revolutions, uprisings, riots, strikes and protests, not despite terrible living conditions, but because of them. Or do you imagine all these people had job security, great quality healthcare and public safety nets? Of course they didn’t, because then they wouldn’t have had to rise up.

        Only in America are the bad conditions used as an excuse not to act.

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          All throughout human history, in every part of the world, there have been revolutions, uprisings, riots, strikes and protests

          yeah but all throughout human history, people have had meaningful human connections to each other. meanwhile, in the western world today, it feels like you can be accused of sexual harassment for looking at somebody too long.

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            Well, you just outed yourself as a part of the problem

            If you’re constantly being accused of being a creep, I’m going to go with the simple answer

            You’re a creep

            It’s amazing how I’ve never had this problem, and have many meaningful connections with all sorts of people

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              i’m going to go with the simple answer

              “I’ve never had this problem” sounds a lot like “it works on my machine”. or “there’s not a police problem because i’ve never been targeted”. it really just means that you’re part of the favored part of society with favored traits and characteristics.

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            I’m a little confused. Are you saying people are not rioting because they’re scared of being accused of sexual harassment? Or do you think that sexual harassment used to be seen as something harmless and ‘meaningful?’

            Do you believe that people would be more likely to act if sexual harassment was (still) accepted? I guess I just don’t get your point.

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        This is because of all of the individualism that is fostered and perpetuated to keep people vulnerable and afraid. It will eventually reach a tipping point and the working class will fight back.

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      I gave what I think I should to my family, they should be able to make it with that. If they fuck up, I don’t really feel that I must continue to support them. I will go full AWOL in that case. Anything is better than spending your life for someone else’s family.

      (I have no partner/child, just parents and brother. Idk what to do about my brother, I give him 2k allowance a month to teach him financial literacy).

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        Between my parents and my sister-in-law I have 3 adults I’m anticipating I might have to financially support at some point in the future.

        My sister in law is entirely financially supported by her partner who’s 40 years older than her, but they have no savings to speak of, and she’s spent her entire adult life scraping by and hasn’t worked a single job for more than a year and has been fired from every job she’s held. Their primary income is her partner’s social security disability payments and a small amount of retirement income from when he was working. Whenever he dies (which it’s honestly incredible that he’s still alive because he’s done nothing to help his body and everything to hinder its continued survival) she’s going to be completely SOL, so we’ve already accepted that she will have to move in with us.

        My parents might have finally started actually budgeting, and that was only after I bought their plane tickets to a funeral without it being a major financial hit for me and then they heard me talking finances and long-term financial planning with another relative and realized it’s past time for them to shape up. I don’t know whether or not they have actually been budgeting, and I don’t know if they have a stable retirement to look forwards to. I also can’t stand them for more than a few hours at a time so we absolutely can’t share a house with them.

        Right now my medium term plan is to get a house that’s more appropriate for 5 people, then later construct an ADU in case my parents need it (and I’d probably rent it to a friend in the mean time) and later on one or both of my kids can probably rent the ADU from us to help them build independence and real world living skills. I’m not thrilled that I have to be the financially responsible one, but here I am so I might as well make the best of it

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          I play this role in my family too, have for a long time. I have a “good” job, and I’m extremely grateful, but even with that we’ve been solidly losing ground for a few years now. Had to make increasingly kinda desperate moves to retain the required stability to be able to just predictably house myself and my loved ones, both the present folks under my roof and keeping an eye toward the future.

          All signs (to me) point to this situation getting much worse, and I see no concrete expectations of improvement on the horizon. Can’t think of one hopeful signal. And I know very, very well that my family and I are clearly among the more fortunate, all things considered.

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          Wtf, 40 years older. He is not even rich by the sounds of it.

          What happened here?

          To be fair, my family is probably going AWOL also, knowing them. But I’d like to spend most of my time in peace and solitude to unfuck myself.

          Of course, I’m talking about a situation where I think I will probably die.

          EDIT: My grandpa spent his life supporting us and building a massive house, only grandma left to maintain it, and no one actually wants to live there…he died just before he got his rights to a pension.

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      It works only while alternative options of employment remain available. Even if they are lower paid. In fact that’s better for them. However, when the employment rate drops, that’s when people get desperate. Desperate people do desperate things.

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        People are already dying because they’re rationing insulin

        People are dying from perfectly treatable illnesses

        People are dying of malnutrition

        People are dying because of needless violence

        People are dying at the hands of the law enforcement who are supposed to be protecting them

        I think the people are so beaten down that they are utterly cowed, and will do nothing

        America was never brave, it was always a bully, within and without.

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          Many people are beaten down, physically, financially and metaphorically. However, at a certain point, they fight back.

          When everyone else seems OK but you’re not, you dkbt fight back as you’ll get arrested. When everyone else is fighting too, you join in! There becomes a tipping point.

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            I don’t have your faith in the American people

            I see that tragic poem of “first they came for” unfolding in real time

            I see a nation who like you say, are beaten down

            But I also see a society which celebrates being selfish, so I don’t think you’re capable of banding together, even when it’s obvious that you should (ie. a few decades ago when Regan was in power)

            It doesn’t help that America is a deliberately stupid country

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              I lost faith in people’s goodness around Covid times. I think it’s purely self interest, just like Covid. If they can’t eat and are angry, violence ensues. We’ve seen it throughout history. It’s why bread and circuses exists as a meme. The circus part is meant to satisfy blood lust or redirect anger.

              Unfortunately for trump, the only circus is him and his cronies. Food prices are going to rise around the same time jobs are lost. Usually job losses leads to lower inflation, but in this case, it’s going to be caused by the reduced oil and thus reduced fertiliser. That’s the slow burn that will take a year to play out.

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    I’ve never understood why people get so excited about tax refunds, but this provides some context.

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      Below a certain income, an average lower-middle class family will generally get more back in tax refunds than they pay in income taxes. A family of 4 making 50k per year (fairly livable in much of the country actually!) might only pay in 3-4k in income tax but then receive 6-8k in credits for the child tax credits, earned income credits, etc.

      And for a lower-middle class family that tends to be the biggest amount of money they see at any given time. They’re only bringing in about $2500/month after taxes, retirement contributions and insurance, and that’s got to cover all living expenses. Recieving a nice big check each year tends to be the best way to be able to make a comparably large financial move, often paying down debt that’s built up over the year, maybe buying a new car (I know I did that one year, put the entire tax credit into a used car, and that was the very first car we owned outright!) or if it’s been a good year that money can be spent on fun stuff

      The other side of the coin is that for the overwhelming majority of people who’s earnings are coming from their jobs, the amount of money that gets withheld for taxes simply isn’t enough to make enough money in interest to be worth while. If you pay $300/month in income taxes (not unrealistic) it would take 4 months before you’ve got enough to buy the smallest short term CD you can, then that 9 month CD for example will only earn you about $30 before you cash it in in February to pay your taxes. Basically in order for placing your tax money into safe investments to pay enough to be worthwhile, your tax bill would need to be so large that you’d already be paying quarterly anyways and already have much bigger fish to fry than worrying about your tax withholdings not earning you interest.

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      Not all tax rebates are due to the government over collecting either

      I’ll be getting about $1600-$2000 just because I Used a certain amount of money towards buying my first home. It’s not money that I gave the government ahead of schedule, it’s money I wouldn’t have gotten unless I did certain things and filed certain paperwork.

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        Yeah, I knew the republicans were about to fuck over homeowners on the 30% solar tax credit.

        Pulled the trigger and now I’m getting back 37k this year and the remainder next… worth it.

        The goal otherwise should always be to not owe and not get shit back.

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      Tax refunds act as forced savings for many people. It’s not a good way to save as the government pays no interest on the savings. The the people then blow the money immediately on major purchases or paying down debt buildup.

      Personally, I always tried to make it so that I didn’t get a tax return. I always figured it cost me significant money in cash flow through the year. Always pissed me off to overpay in taxes when I could have used the money for critical things I needed during the year.

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        the government pays no interest

        I can’t remember the last time I saw a bank pay interest, either. If you want to grow a principle balance, you need to invest it, and that gets real iffy when the demented gameshow host decides to manipulate the markets.

        It seems like my 401k dips $5k every afternoon when Trump promises something insane, then bounces back the next morning when he doesn’t follow through.

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          If you have more than a few thousand in your bank you need to look at their financial offerings or consider opening a high yield savings account at a larger bank. My credit union has a few offerings which give 2-3% interest as long as you maintain a balance over a certain amount (usually 1-5k) but most of the account offerings that are more focused on being fee-free only yield about 0.25% interest. And this is all without dipping into actual brokerage and other more risky financial products

          Basically it’s the difference between $10k earning you $25 a year or earning you $300-400/year

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          You can open a brokerage account like Fidelity and put the money in a 3-4% cash account(like spaxx). Takes about 10 minutes and it’s low risk. Can get your money any time like a bank.

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            This is the ideal way to handle your emergency fund, toss it in a high yield savings account with a different bank from your every day one, and then it’s harder to tap into if you have a mild inconvenience. Between the high yield savings account and CDs that I keep about 1/3 of my emergency fund tied up in, my emergency fund is earning me about $500/year. Is that a life changing amount of money? Of course not! But it is enough that I can basically never touch my emergency fund and it should hold its value a bit above inflation indefinitely. And as a bonus it’s all FDIC insured!

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    I have my deductions set up where I always owe $50-200 when tax time rolls around. Those fuckers are not getting all of it upfront.