Refusing to use a condom is a massive red flag. Yes, they reduce sensation, but they also protect both parties from significant health risks. An IUD is irrelevant to him at this stage
Always use a condom until you have both tested clear and are committed to each other. If your relationship is poly, then condom use and testing is required for every new partner, and it’s sensible to have everyone retested when someone new comes into the relationship.
I’d personally be concerned about their behaviour, either then trying to coerce you into unprotected sex, or being a whiny shit refusing to use a condom. Both of these would make me consider withdrawing consent, but I’m a stickler for enthusiasm at all stages.
















There’s a lot of discussion of the first episode here: https://www.cookdandbombd.co.uk/forums/index.php?topic=119160.240
I’ve linked to the start of the live discussion, as I reckon 8 pages of pre-release speculation is a bit much for most people, but YMMV.
My initial thought is that George Fouracres is the standout performer in this episode, but given that he has plenty of sketch and “proper” stage experience he’s got a big headstart on some of the stand-ups. He provided my two big laughs, one in the Hamnet sketch, and in the final “45 Seconds…”. Emma Sidi also does well with her one main character. Post-Fast Show, the sketches do seem very slow and dragged out; that’s the SNL way, it seems.