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  • Y’all are thinking in context of the world we created for ourselves.

    It’s because humans had a natural lifespan of 35 years or so. We got puberty and it’s time to start having kids, build our tribe, and get our offspring going on their own lives.

    You hit early/mid twenties and you’re in your biological prime with no offspring, and now all the goals having a society has piled on, and you’re way behind and you hurdle along to late twenties and the end of your time.








  • modern_drift@lemmy.worldtoOff My Chest@lemmy.worldIt's over.
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    3 months ago

    My dad stayed with his second wife long enough for my step sister to decide who she wanted to stay with when they split.

    Dad kept us when him and Mom split up, he kept my step sister and half brother when him and the second wife split. Step sister never forgot it, always knew she had his love. It was huge for her, considering how useless her mom, Aunt, and grandmother were. She could have turned out completely different. Now she has a family with three kids and seems to be a great mom.

    It might not be under your control but, if you love the kid and want him/her in your life, tell em the decision is up to them, as far as you’re concerned. If that’s what you want.