As others have said, respect her and get to know her. Make a huge effort to communicate well right now. It might seem like it’s a bit early, but look up fair fighting rules now. Understanding and internalizing those rules helped me to not get in fights because I had a good frame of reference that we were a team and to not blame each other but work together and communicate early and often. It’s much better to diffuse negative feelings early than let them fester to become an angry burst or resentment. You said she’s more reserved, and that’s ok. If you are steadily open and communicating with her, she will open up over time. Remember to be her friend too.

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A little ghost-tea

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I wish they had used the name Don instead of Gary