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Cake day: February 8th, 2025

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  • I am sorry I didn’t realize this was an echo chamber where you can only voice validating and approving opinions.

    I mainly think banning SM is better than trying age verification or some other way to exclude children. If it is 99% toxic trash then it should just be banned.

    Next in line is 99% of all porn, which is also toxic trash. If one applies the same logic as previously, then it should be banned too.

    Unregulated use of morphine (heroine) is bad, thus we ban it.

    It is interesting though how strongly you react to porn specifically getting banned. Maybe you should reflect on that.






  • This is why we have so much tribalism, polarization and extremism today too though. People find their information bubble, gets validated for the shit they say (i.e. emotional support), feel good about it so they post more and more extreme shit and validate (give emotional support) to others in the bubble.

    Now you have an extremist movement. Getting emotional support/validation from strangers on the internet is not always a good thing. Even if it makes you feel less anxious. Some people should feel anxious about the things they think about.



  • It warms my heart that you still want to be friends with her and not rip things up completely. It must have been so difficult for her to come out, given that she would risk losing you completely. I hope you find a way to move forward from this. It is as you said nobody’s fault.

    My sympathies to you for having your life shaken like this…













  • I wish that it was more okay to struggle, to not always have to hide. I wish people had more understanding and knowledge about neurodiversity, that it isn’t something one can “overcome”, but something that you have to fight and struggle with all the time. We need breaks to just be ourselves and do and feel what we need. Just because I have learnt how to behave in public does not mean that it is easy or that I have fundamentally changed. It is just as emotionally taxing to act unnatural to oneself.