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Cake day: December 13th, 2025

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  • You’re already dealing with grief, and you’re doing it in your own way. Know that it will pass. Some people break down, some people are just more vulnerable for a time, some people don’t give a f, some others pretend they don’t give a f and break down in private, some others don’t care, etc.

    All you have to do if you have an outburst is to stay conscious of your context and maybe explore the roots of your feeling. It boils down to asking yourself “why”. Being confronted to our mortality always has an impact, and may the conclusion of our experiences inspire us to enjoy life and what/who’s in it a little more. Be patient and kind to yourself and others. Talk with them if that is possible. Some good can come out of it.




  • We’d need to talk about how men are brought up and how women and society’s expectations on them participate in making them what they are.

    Talking from a gay PoV, so having to go through the worst of both worlds, I can guarantee that men are brainwashed into never having a functionnal relationship with their emotions, because they are only taught to repress them like they are expected to be psychopaths. Hence, one day, they snap. They always snap. Women would too. Any human would. We have to make an inventory of what f*ckery is expected of men, because absolutely nobody is innocent of making men f*cked up.