I made this post and forgot to save my password. I saved it this time, lol. I’ll answer those questions from that post here though since you all took the time to write them, it’s only fair i think. In the same order they were posted in, here we go (:


“What social media do you use, and what made you decide to create an account on Lemmy?”

None that I will give out here! haha but most of the usual ones, ig, snap, used to use tiktok but deleted it, reddit… I think that’s it. I decided to try lemme out because reddit is getting ridiculous with rules and shit, one of my accounts got banned from a sub because of a power trip, I posted from another account, then the account got banned from the site and now I’m here hoping it’s a good replacement. A little concerned most of the posts are just that one Mickey guy tho lmao, nothing against you mickey but where’s all the people


“Which Linux distro do you run?”

Uhh… I ran a 5k once? Lol I know linux is like an alt for windows or mac, no idea what a distro is. Is it cool?


“All SFW questions so far. So I’ll start: What do you consider your biggest achievement in bed?”

I’m gonna take this one literally and only include things that happened in an actual bed, don’t want to ruin the fun and reveal everything all at once! One of my close friends would tell me how he couldn’t cum from head, didn’t matter how good they were. We we were always a little flirty but never did anything for years, but one night he was talking about it and I said I bet I could, there was a back and forth teasing and then his cock was in my mouth. He wasn’t lying - he did not want to cum. Or, he did, but his cock didn’t. I have never to this day put so much effort, for so long, into sucking one cock, and was ready to give up just from how much my jaw hurt, when finally I got him (: I don’t know how long it took, it felt like fucking hours but I think it was more like 1.


“Do you believe in a deterministic model of the universe or do you think that the cosmos is chaotic and infinite?”

I dunno about chaotic but infinite


“What’s your favourite dinosaur? :3”

i like the ones with the long necks, and those tiny ones that ate that guy in jurassic park (i think the 2nd movie?)

Ok this is getting way too long, I’m gonna skip to just answering new comments (can ask old questions again or link to em but I don’t wanna type anymore lol.


I will answer this one though:

“what do you expect to accomplish here?”

getting turned on

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    Would negotiating the detail of a cnc scene with a willing partner end up turning you off, or on the contrary, turn you on even more?

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      Ever been to a BDSM party? Half the people there are in IT. The other half in medicine. Every other profession is an outlier.

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        People don’t seem to understand that high functioning autism correlates with high technical competency and also high openness to new / unconventional experiences.

        Doing the social dance of finding a mate? Oh we’re awful at trying to decipher the mating rituals of neurotypicals.

        Just give us a sex club with fairly clearly defined rules.

        Muuuuch less complicated.

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            Every day I get closer and closer to thinking that making a ‘dating’ app that requires you to get above a certain threshold on a RAADS V type test is actually a very good idea.

            High functioning autistic people tend to have this apparently magical abilility to say what they mean and mean what they say… would simplify things a lot for us if we just literally screened out the normies.

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              I’m down. I need an autistic mommy domme that loves me. It’s us that should rule the world. The NT’s have had their chance. Also, RFK Jr. can go fuck himself with a rake.

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                I can’t say I’ve ever met an autistic domme woman, but I also just haven’t met too many autistic women, full stop.

                Most of the ones I have met are submissive or maybr a switch, but I’ve never met a pure domme autist woman.

                But, that’s just an anecdote.

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          i know it’s common with guys, def not surprised there. was surprised to learn how many girls have it as a kink. and I have! with one, I mean, and it probably wasn’t as well done as other more experienced people make it. I’m not a very good actor i guess, lmao. but it was fun (:

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            Don’t worry about comparing yourself to other people’s scenes or how good an actor you were. Just the fact that you had someone you trusted enough to give it a try puts you far and above most people’s experience. The hardest part of the process is finding someone who respects you enough to disrespect you 😄 Besides, it just means it will be better next time!

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                Nope and I doubt I ever will 😅 Cnc exists in a weird space for me where I love all the elements of it, but not necessarily the whole package. Mostly I really love bondage and the feeling of being restrained and helpless AND being objectified and treated like an object, but not necessarily the forced aspects of it all. That doesn’t mean I don’t like to imagine the thought of it though 🤭

                What would your ideal scenario look like?

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                  Mostly I really love bondage and the feeling of being restrained and helpless AND being objectified and treated like an object, but not necessarily the forced aspects of it all.

                  You should look into freeuse, that’s not too far from CNC

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    Have you ever been with someone who was into feet/sucked your toes/etc?

    Also, what’s the goofiest and/or weirdest thing you’ve ever been like “well, ok, i dunno why that turns me on, but whatever”? lol (Like, for example, a few years back I was dating this girl that had gotten these prosthetic vampire fang things from Wish that i didn’t know about and had popped them in to try them on that night and I was all, “I’ve got something you can suck the blood out of” :-p

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    Welcome to lemmy! We are few but we do have much better conversations here.

    The adult industry has shifted a lot over the last ten years. I’m assuming you’re either not involved, or new to bring a model. With that in mind, what avenue would you take to start career for yourself in the adult industry?

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    A little flurry of horny questions:

    What are some small specific acts you like done to you when being dominated? Like leash pulling, having your wrists or neck held, being made to struggle, pulled by the legs or held down?

    What do you think of deep throating? In theory very appealing, but looks uncomfortable. I’d like to try it some day.

    What do you think of the one bar prison?

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    If you could choose any sex toy no matter the price which one would you get?

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    Eh, I’ll bite, why not? What’s the most consecutive orgasms you’ve been put through in a single session, whether via your own hands, a toy, or someone else?

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    You told a story about it taking forever to get a guy to cum by blowing him. You said that you finally succeeded. Did you let him stream his load into your mouth or did you move to hand job only and let his ropes of cum shoot freely? My GF friend just hates those crusty dried cum stains anywhere in the house and for cleanliness prefers to swallow my load.