I’ve been on Lemmy before, and I used to be on reddit quite a bit for this. Lemmy is a ghost town for dirty 1:1 chats, and reddit makes it nearly impossible to make throwaway accounts these days.

Mainly looking for one-off chats and generally, people who are also looking for the same thing. Looking for any tips/suggestions on sites, services, forums, etc.

Also, just so it’s clear, my DMs will be open 24/7 for dirty and casual convos from anyone, hit me up and say hi!

  • CerebralHawks@lemmy.dbzer0.comEnglish
    3·
    8 days ago

    One of you (OP or the 24f looking for DMs) should make a community on LemmyNSFW (you are both members of that instance) for dirty chats.

    I am on a different instance that federates with LemmyNSFW. I could not create the community without joining LemmyNSFW as well, and I have no interest in running that community. But, that is what you should do.

    Or, since the two of you are both interested, assuming she favors whichever your gender is, maybe the two of you should just DM… but if you cannot find the place, make the place!

    • MaybeALittleBitWeird@lemmynsfw.comEnglish
      3·
      8 days ago

      There’s no need to make a new community. There are plenty of communities that already exist solely for finding chat partners or to post personals. However, they aren’t active and when people do actually post they get zero replies. The problem isn’t the communities.

      I can’t be bothered atm (eating pizza is far more important), but I can edit in a few later on.

      Edit: Alright, as promised, here’s a list. Not all of them fit OP’s specifications, but all are general discussion, erp, dirtychat, or personals communities. You’ll notice that in almost all of them most posts go completely unanswered. Also, don’t use native Lemmy ui for community search, use Lemmyverse.net .

        • MaybeALittleBitWeird@lemmynsfw.comEnglish
          1·
          8 days ago

          Lemmy is a ghost town for dirty 1:1 chats

          OP isn’t looking for communities to post to because they understand that the issue is post success, not where to post.

          This community list was more to illustrate to you specifically that they do in fact exist already. We could make another community with an admittedly better name to make it more easily searchable, but that doesn’t mean that people will respond to posts on it any more than they will on any of the others.

  • WallsToTheBalls@lemmynsfw.comEnglish
    1·
    9 days ago

    Not for free, no. Welcome to the privatization of sexuality, either cough up for an onlyfans subscription or accept you’re probably talking to another dude